What's a FAMILY?

I always thought that pa had 1 sister, 1brother, grandma, grandpa that died of a heart attack and a few more relatives that i have dim memories about. I was always naive, thinking everyone who is family loves each other no matter what.


Back in Msia my ma has 4sisters n 1 brother. Two of them living close by. My DaiYee, my YeeYee. As i was growing up, they were like second moms to us. They came almost everyday. It was a pleasure it see, play, love, watch them and do all sort of things with them. We love them, they love us. They even took care of us when ma & pa went away for long trips (2-3weeks). They'd deal with crazy, hyper-active us, (especially when we were younger). Worst still when we got sick, me with fever once, Jo and Audrey with chicken pox once! >.<

They may not be our mother, not even a mother for that matter, but they treat us like we were their own. Its like they have a love of a mother. Readily giving it to us, just pouring it out. Of course they not only did it for us but for ma as well, cause she did have 3 of us - hyper, noisy, crazy, "turn the house upside-down" kinda kids. =) Hahahaha! They were really thoughtful always got stuff for us, even tho we never ask...... especially clothes and absolutely yummmmmmmy food! (daiyee knows the best places!! even tho they'r in an alley) haha probably explains Jo's tummy..... well...... partially......mmmm hahaha... well PARTIALLY >.<

Well lovely ~memories~ I miss them.............................

Here its different story.... complete opposite to be specific, I haven't met any of relatives since i got here..... except my grandma n her younger sister. Anyone else? nope. Do know anything bout em'..... nope. Then ppl say "Oh you just got there! You'll get to know them!" I didnt even know that i my dad actually has 2sisters n 1brother (uncle Joey)......till my grandma blurted things out.... AS USUAL.... -.=" I never met the eldest aunt and the other 2 i have only seen once or twice.....few, dim memories with the candle light about to go out.

Course when someone reliezes this, they know someone's hidding something. So what was it that my pa never told me? He doesnt like his sisters n mother, but with (uncle Joey) he's okay.....Not till we came back. now ask me WHY? i have no idea!!!! Its a puzzle. He said that they may seem nice but be cautious. So yea...... sigh* Its like the world turns suddenly....

What else is there to say? i dont know...... hope for the best and all i guess....